Both of these
pictures are in the first level of my house. When we first moved in, my mother
set then up to show all company that entered our house how proud she was of her
parents and children. The first picture is dedicated to my grandparents. On our
mantle, when have the flag that we got when my grandfather passed. He was a
WWII veteran, so they gave him the proper burial complete with a 21-gun salute
and flag for the family. Since that day, we’ve kept his flag in its case as a
sign of respect and remembrance for my Pop-Pop. In front of the flag is my
grandmother’s urn. She died when I was a sophomore in high school. She
requested to be cremated and buried in Jamaica with her mother. My mother
followed her wishes and took her ashes to be buried in Jamaica next to her
mother. But because she didn’t want to let her mother go completely, she kept
just a little bit of her and placed it next to her husband’s flag. So while in
our home, my Mom-Mom and Pop-Pop will remain next to each other. The mantle
also has other touches of remembrance for my grandparents. Gifts, a grandpa and
granddaughter in a rocking chair figurine, native Jamaican wood sculptures,
etc., that we bought our grandparents for special holidays are up there, as
well as grandma and grandpa Chinese figurines that match our Chinese chest in
the Family room. To give the feel of being in at my grandparents’ old house in
Florida, my mom puts up pictures from special events in our lives like they
used to do (hence why my prom picture and my sister’s, Mayne, high school
graduation picture are there).
The second
picture is in my Living room. This is the first room you see when you enter my
house. My mother changes this special place in the house every time there is a
graduation. No matter who graduates, both Mayne and my picture stay up on the
sides of the table; they only change if a new picture is taken. My mom
decorates the center of the table with our diploma, graduation program, and any
other mementos from that day. Usually, there is a vase of flowers and a lot of
glitter on the table (both my sister and I like glitter!). She does this
primarily for the party that comes after the graduation; the table remains set
up this way until the next graduation. This is my mom’s way of celebrating our
accomplishments and appreciating our efforts.
These are pictures of Mayne’s and my room. When we first
moved, my mom allowed us to set up our own rooms. We both wanted to celebrate
the accomplishments that we had achieved throughout our young lives. We asked
our mother to get us bookcases that we could fill with our trophies from track
& field, cheerleading, dance, and scholastic honors. As the years went on,
we added more trophies and medals from high school. Eventually, we were able to
put our varsity letters and graduation caps on display. Mayne’s senior year,
our poms team won 3rd place in short pom and 1st place in
hip-hop at state competition. Since Mayne was our captain, she got to take home
the trophies so they sit on the floor by her bed since they were so huge. We
look at our trophy cases as a way to celebrate ourselves. Something to show our
children of all the honors that we have been awarded.
















